It is important to know that when you use your psychic senses in relationships, you are not reading people’s minds or looking into secrets that they probably wouldn’t tell you. This could create karma that you wouldn’t want to face later on. Just imagine if someone could do that type of thing to you – would you want them to be able to read your innermost secrets? I think you would want them to be respectful. Always hold the intention that you will focus on someone with the idea of helping your relationship, not to look at their private secrets or anything else that is personal or private. We all deserve some doors that we can close when we want to.

Learn to trust your first impression. Your first impression is most often correct when it comes to your relationships. Relationships can be hard. But when we learn to trust our first impression, relationships get much easier. Haven’t you met someone and said to yourself, “they are a very difficult person” or “this person has a real temper”? Many people when they look back realize that they have feelings like that. But they don’t listen to those little feelings they have. They simply plow ahead and ignore their psychic senses.

You can ask your psychic senses to help tune into your relationships. Ask your psychic senses to tune in to your relationship with your sister or your boyfriend and how they can be improved. Notice exactly what you notice. You may be surprised what comes up. They may be thinking about something that has nothing to do with your relationship, they may be thinking about something else that concerns them. Using your psychic senses can help you to improve the relationships you have by being sensitive to those around you.

One of the best questions you can ask psychically about your relationships is “How can I make them happy?” When you focus on this question psychically, you’ll receive information that will help you understand how you can do your part to make them feel better. If there is anything that you can do to improve the relationship this is where you’ll be shown what you can do.

Learn to tune in to your boyfriend or girlfriend’s energy before you connect with them. Picture them in your mind’s eye as you are going to see them and try to pick up on their mood. Try to pick up any other information about what they are wearing or what is going around near them. Connect with them and send them love so that they feel that you love them. Even if they don’t think they are especially tuned in to their psychic senses, they’ll pick up on this on some level and feel your love.

We all have psychic senses; it is not something that only a certain “chosen few” have. So while it can be useful to get a psychic reading, you can tune into your own psychic senses to make a hard decision. A psychic reading from a professional is best used as a second opinion to your own psychic senses, after you have tuned into the issue yourself. You may discover that they agree with exactly what you see, or that they pick up on something else entirely for you to consider. Trusting that you have psychic senses and can make your own hard decisions is the very first step.

Begin your psychic reading by saying a prayer or a blessing of some type to create sacred space. This sets the intention for your psychic reading time. Setting your intention is critical for what you are doing. Always begin any psychic work with a prayer or a blessing.

Get into a quiet place and focus on your issue. Make it into a question, such as “Should I move to the country?” Listen to every sensation in your body and any impressions that come. These physical sensations that come and the impressions you receive are all your psychic senses speaking to you. So if your stomach starts to hurt, this could be a “no” signal. If you get excited feelings like butterflies, this could be a “yes” feeling. If you start to think about relatives that are happy living in the country, this could be a sign that you too would be happy living there. Become hypersensitive to everything around you after you ask your question and realize that what you focus on is helping you answer your question.

Answering hard questions can take some practice. If you are new to using your psychic senses, start by asking your psychic senses some questions that you are interested in knowing the answer but are less important right now. Think of questions like, “Where should I take my summer vacation?” These questions will help you discover exactly how your psychic senses work. The more you know about how they work, the better you can use them.

One of the best ways to use your psychic senses to make a hard decision is to ask the question and then to simply let go of the answer. Let the information come to you when it is meant to. Trust that it will come. It may not come for a day or three days. But trust that it will come.

Your psychic senses are sensitive, delicate. Many compare your psychic senses to having a small, still voice inside of yourself. To think of your psychic senses as a small, still voice is limiting them, as they are so much more. They are that feeling you get in the pit of your stomach. They are the vivid dreams you have. As you pay attention to these psychic sensations that you have, you’ll learn to tune in to them quicker and easier. It is not that you become more psychic, simply that you become more aware of what is already existing and trying to communicate with you.

One of the first things you must do is simply learn to trust your psychic senses. When you have a thought you feel is psychic, learn to trust that it is indeed psychic. Many people question their psychic senses far too often. As you trust your psychic senses, you’ll become more confident. This trust is critical in nurturing your psychic senses for further development.

It is also so helpful at first to keep your psychic impressions to yourself. This may sound funny at first, because you may be very tempted to share your psychic impressions. But when you share your psychic impressions, you’ll receive feedback from other people. It is important to keep in mind that 99% of their feedback is emotional, and not actually based on how accurate your psychic impression is. Also if you are speaking to a person with a positive attitude – they will be more likely to give you more positive feedback. A person with a critical attitude will give you more critical feedback. At first you need to develop your psychic senses without the pressure of feedback.

Learn to play little games with your psychic senses during the day. Try to tune your psychic senses in to figure out what would be the best route to drive to work that day. Or what your coworkers will be wearing or what moods they’ll be in. Really focus and work on getting details. These psychic games may seem a little silly but every time you play you are exercising the muscle and these muscles will only get stronger.

Keep a notebook recording your psychic impressions. It is easiest if you have a little pocket sized notebook you can carry with you every day. Just jot down your notes. As you go over your notebook, you’ll realize just how accurate you are becoming. This is a real confidence builder.

Meditation is also a great way to nurture your psychic senses. Studies have shown that people who meditate have a stronger connection to their psychic senses. Start with just ten or fifteen minutes of silent meditation each day. This short meditation session will gently open you to your psychic senses and help you to nurture what exists deep inside of you.

How are you at dealing with people in a crisis? Many people will consult a psychic when they are dealing with a crisis situation. These people actually don’t need a psychic reading, and some of them should be encouraged to seek professional counseling. A psychic reading is never an emergency situation, no matter what a potential client might say. An excellent point to raise with clients in this situation is that they are so upset they just won’t listen clearly to the psychic reading and that they should wait a few days. Waiting a few days until they are clearer can be quite beneficial.

Do you want to own your own business? When you work as a professional psychic, you basically own your own business. Even if you give psychic readings in a new age store or bookstore, you need to know how to do basic bookkeeping and promote yourself to attract clients. Learning about how to run your own business will be quite useful to you.

What is your intention in becoming a professional psychic? For some the idea of being rich and famous greatly appeals to them. Others simply want to be a professional psychic because they see this as a way they can help the most people. Still others see themselves as teachers of spiritual subjects. Understanding your true intentions for being a professional psychic will help you be the very best psychic that you can be.

Do you have experience giving others’ psychic readings? This is one of the most important things you’ll need as a professional psychic. A great way to start can be to read for your friends and family – and then to read for their friends and family. Give them short readings to test your skills and ask for feedback.

Remember the phrase “shoot the messenger.” There are some people that come for psychic readings and are actually hoping that you’ll come up with some sort of magic solution for them. That somehow the man they want to love them will instantly love them. When you tell this woman that no, he doesn’t seem to have reciprocal feelings – she may be disappointed or even get hopping mad! Learning to phrase your readings in a tactful way is key so that readings are the most helpful to people.

A great career can take years to develop. A psychic career can take years to develop. It may seem like “anyone” can start because there is no official certification, no test you must pass – but pretty soon you discover that the people who stay in business are the ones who are compassionate and accurate. A great career in the psychic arts takes years to develop a following. But remember that happy clients do refer friends, family members and even people they meet on the street!

Some people feel that they can’t tell the difference between their own thoughts and a psychic thought. “How can I tell?” they may wonder. It does get better with practice. Like developing a muscle, this psychic muscle of yours will get stronger and toned over time. You’ll learn your own signals and discover just what a psychic thought feels like verses your own thoughts.

Psychic thoughts feel calm, loving and clear. When a psychic thought comes, it feels simply like you are receiving a fact. Emotions swing up and down, or go back and forth with the tides. We all know what the “voice” of hope, fear, love or frustration can feel like. These are not the voice of intuition.

Your psychic thoughts often will repeat themselves until you listen to them. So many people discover that they have these thoughts over and over again. Think for a moment about what thoughts you have repeatedly? These can lead you to your psychic thoughts. Our psychic senses often become louder when we don’t listen to them. Our psychic senses want us to listen to them.

Sometimes you’ll want to tune into your psychic senses until times of great stress or emotion. These can be the exact times when you’ll want your psychic impressions the very most. But often this is the most challenging time to listen to a psychic voice, as your emotional voice speaks louder often from anxiety or fear. Learning to be patient, to ask your question of your psychic senses and then to step back and wait for the answer is key. Trusting that the answer will come.

One of the best things you can do to trust your psychic senses is to simply start by trusting them for the smaller things. Start by making a psychically based decision on which restaurant you should eat lunch in. Listen to the answer and notice your impressions. Then try making a larger psychically based decision such as which store would have a better bargain for a major purchase you need to make, and visit that store to see if they do indeed have that better bargain. You don’t have to make the purchase, simply note if your psychic senses were accurate. Little by little, as you make decisions using your psychic senses, you’ll feel more confident.

It is also important to know that everyone can be wrong when it comes to their psychic senses. No one is 100% accurate. Backing up your information with facts and logic can be quite helpful – and extremely sound decision-making skills. But just as we all can make the wrong decision at times, we all can receive psychic information that doesn’t make sense to us. Learning to be humble about your psychic senses is critical to know that you are not infallible. No one is.